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Luxury Adult Day Programs · Long Island

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Welcome

Adult day programs on Long Island, in the heart of Patchogue

Good company, wonderful food and something to look forward to every day. The Grand Social brings Long Island's most refined adult day programs together under one elegant roof.

Connect

Meet friends old and new

Engage

Classes, talks and activities

Explore

Outings across Long Island

Belong

A community that feels like home

Programs & Services

Explore The Grand Social

From our adult day program in Patchogue to companion services across Long Island, find the right way to join us.

Adult Day Program Patchogue NY

Adult Day Programs

A full, engaging day for adults who want company, structure and support, at our adult day program in Patchogue, NY.

Learn more → Social Adult Day Care Suffolk County

Social Adult Day Services

Social adult day care for Suffolk County families: meals, activities and friendly supervision in a warm, club-like setting.

Learn more → Adult Social Club Long Island

Lifestyle Memberships

Join Long Island's adult social club, with flexible memberships for dining, classes, wellness and member-only events.

Learn more → Adult Activities Patchogue NY

Activities & Events

Live music, fitness, arts, guest speakers and outings: a full calendar of adult activities in Patchogue, NY.

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Companion Services

One-on-one companions for conversation, support and help throughout the day. Companion services across Long Island.

Learn more → Adult Day Program Pricing Long Island

Pricing & Membership

What's included, how memberships work and the ways families pay for adult day programs on Long Island.

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Contact & Tours

Looking for an adult day program near Patchogue? Schedule a personal tour of The Grand Social at 1 Terry Street.

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What We Offer

Our Amenities

Everything your membership includes, from fine dining to caring support, all in one place.

Fine Dining

Chef-inspired meals and elegant dining experiences.

Social Connection

Meaningful friendships and a vibrant community.

Wellness & Fitness

Gentle fitness, yoga, wellness programs and mindfulness.

Arts & Culture

Enrichment classes, guest speakers and cultural experiences.

Entertainment

Live music, dancing, movie afternoons and special events.

Exclusive Outings

Curated day trips, local excursions and member events.

Concierge Services

Transportation coordination and personalized support.

Onsite Nurses

Caring nurses on site every day for wellness checks, health questions and peace of mind.

Companion Care

Friendly companions for one-on-one support, conversation and help throughout the day.

Medication Management

Medication reminders and scheduled doses handled with care during your visit.

Members enjoying coffee together in The Grand Social's elegant lounge

The Club

Elegant spaces to relax & socialize

Sink into a comfortable chair with a fresh cup of coffee, share lunch with friends, or settle in for an afternoon of music and conversation.

Every room is designed for comfort and conversation, with the warmth and polish of a private club.

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Our Neighborhood

Discover Patchogue, NY

Just steps from our door: one of Long Island's most charming villages, with restaurants, water views, live music and theater all close by.

Diners at outdoor café tables on Patchogue Main Street

Restaurants

Shop · Dine · Explore · Enjoy

Main Street is lined with restaurants, cafés and sidewalk tables, from casual lunches to elegant dinners.

The Patchogue waterfront and marina at sunset

Water Views

Scenic Views · Leisure · Outings

Sunset strolls along the Great South Bay, with boats in the marina, benches and fresh sea air.

Patchogue Main Street lit up in the evening

Live Music

Concerts · Dancing · Festivals

Evenings in the village come alive with live bands, street festivals and music for every taste.

The Patchogue Theatre marquee lit up at night

Theater

Plays · Performances · Movies

The historic Patchogue Theatre hosts live performances, films and special events all year long.

Visit Us

Come see The Grand Social for yourself

Schedule a personal tour or ask about membership. We would be delighted to welcome you.

Address 1 Terry Street
Patchogue, NY 11772

Email [email protected]

Adult Day Program · Patchogue, NY

Adult Day Programs

A full, rewarding day for adults who want good company, structure and support, at our adult day program in Patchogue, NY.

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Our Program

An adult day program in Patchogue that feels like a private club

The Grand Social is a daytime program for adults who would enjoy more connection, activity and support during the week. Members spend the day with friends, share a chef-inspired lunch, take part in classes and outings, and know that caring staff and onsite nurses are close by.

For families, it is peace of mind. Your loved one has a safe, engaging place to spend the day, and you have time to work, run errands or simply rest, knowing they are in good hands.

Located at 1 Terry Street in the Village of Patchogue, we welcome members from across Suffolk County and Long Island.

Every program day includes

Chef-inspired lunch, snacks and refreshments
Planned social, creative and wellness activities
Gentle fitness, yoga and mindfulness
Onsite nurses for wellness checks and health questions
Medication reminders and scheduled doses during the visit
Friendly companions for one-on-one support
Concierge help with transportation coordination

Who It's For

Is an adult day program right for you?

Adult day programs serve many different people. Members often join us because they:

Connection

Want more company

Live alone, or spend long days at home, and miss the friendships and conversation that make life full.

Support

Need a little help

Benefit from supervision, reminders or a helping hand during the day while still living at home.

Caregivers

Care for a loved one

Are family caregivers who need reliable daytime support and regular time to recharge.

Wellness

Want to stay active

Want structure, movement and mental stimulation to stay sharp, strong and engaged.

Transition

Are recovering or adjusting

Are adjusting after a hospital stay, a move or a loss, and want a warm routine to return to.

Lifestyle

Simply love a good day out

Are active adults who want fine dining, classes and outings in an elegant social setting.

Getting Started

How to join

Tour the club

Visit 1 Terry Street, meet our team and see the spaces. Bring a family member if you like.

Talk with us

We learn about interests, routines and any support needs, including health and medication questions.

Build the plan

Together we choose program days and create a personal plan for activities and care.

Enjoy your first day

We introduce you to members, staff and your companion, and help you settle in.

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What is an adult day program?

An adult day program is a structured daytime program, in a safe setting, for adults who benefit from socialization, supervision or support but continue to live at home. Members attend during the day and return home in the afternoon.

How is a social adult day program different from adult day health care?

New York State distinguishes social adult day services, which focus on socialization, supervision, personal care and nutrition, from medical-model adult day health care, which is operated by nursing homes. Learn more on our Social Adult Day Services page.

Where are you located?

The Grand Social is at 1 Terry Street, Patchogue, NY 11772, in the heart of the village and close to Main Street. We welcome members from Patchogue and across Suffolk County and Long Island.

Can you help with transportation?

Yes. Our concierge team helps coordinate transportation to and from the club. Ask about options for your area when you schedule a tour.

How much does it cost?

Cost depends on how many days you attend and the services you need. See Pricing & Membership for what is included and the ways families pay for adult day programs.

Sources: NYS Office for the Aging: Social Adult Day Services

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Come see it for yourself

Tour the club, meet our team and enjoy a cup of coffee in the lounge. We would be delighted to welcome you to 1 Terry Street.

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Social Adult Day Care · Suffolk County

Social Adult Day Services

Social adult day care for Suffolk County families: meaningful activities, attentive supervision, personal care and nutritious meals in a warm, club-like setting.

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What It Is

Social adult day care, explained

New York State describes social adult day services as "a structured, comprehensive day program in a protective setting for less than a 24-hour period." These programs are also known as day programs or social adult day care.

Social adult day care is designed for adults who need some help or supervision during the day, including people living with memory loss or other cognitive changes, while they continue to live at home with family or on their own.

At The Grand Social, we deliver these services with the comfort and polish of a private club, so members experience a great day out, not a facility.

Social vs. medical adult day

Social adult day services focus on socialization, supervision, personal care and nutrition.

Adult day health care is a separate, medical model operated by nursing homes in New York.

Day habilitation programs serve people with developmental disabilities or mental health needs.

Core Services

The four core services of social adult day care

These are the core services New York State lists for social adult day programs, and how we bring each one to life.

Socialization

Planned, structured activities built on each member's skills and interests: music, arts, discussion groups, games, gentle fitness and outings.

Supervision & Monitoring

Staff keep track of every member's whereabouts, activities and needs throughout the day, with ongoing encouragement and support.

Personal Care

Discreet, respectful help with mobility, transfers, toileting and eating, plus support with self-administered medication.

Nutrition

Chef-inspired lunch at regular mealtimes, with snacks and drinks throughout the day.

Beyond the Basics

Additional support at The Grand Social

Health

Onsite nurses

Nurses on site for wellness checks, health questions and peace of mind.

Care

Medication reminders

Reminders and scheduled doses during the visit, handled with care.

Concierge

Transportation coordination

Help arranging rides to and from the club.

Companionship

One-on-one companions

Friendly companions for conversation and help throughout the day.

Families

Caregiver support

Regular updates, guidance and a team you can call with questions.

Planning

A personal service plan

A written plan created with you and your family, reviewed as needs change.

Who Qualifies

Who social adult day care serves

Under New York State's standards, social adult day services are for adults who need the help of another person with at least one daily activity, such as toileting, mobility and transfers, or eating, or who need supervision because of cognitive or psychosocial impairment, and who are likely to benefit from the program.

Before a new member begins, we meet with you to understand abilities, needs and interests, so we can be sure The Grand Social is the right fit.

Your personal service plan

Created together with you and your family caregivers
Completed within the first 30 days
Sets goals for physical, mental and social well-being
Reviewed as needs change, and at least once a year

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What is social adult day care?

Social adult day care is a structured day program in a protective setting that provides socialization, supervision, personal care and meals for adults who live at home but benefit from daytime support.

Do you serve people with memory loss?

New York's standards include adults who need supervision because of cognitive impairment. We meet with every family before enrollment to make sure we can safely meet your loved one's needs.

Do you serve families outside Patchogue?

Yes. We are located at 1 Terry Street in Patchogue and welcome families from across Suffolk County. Our concierge team can help coordinate transportation.

Can Medicaid or insurance help pay for social adult day care?

Some Medicaid Managed Long Term Care plans, long-term care insurance policies and veterans' programs may help pay for adult day services. See Pricing & Membership for details, and ask your plan which services it covers.

What does a typical day look like?

Members arrive, enjoy coffee and conversation, take part in morning activities, share lunch and spend the afternoon on classes, music or outings. See Activities & Events for a sample day.

Sources: NYS Office for the Aging: Social Adult Day Services · NYC Aging: Social Adult Day Service Standards

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Come see it for yourself

Tour the club, meet our team and enjoy a cup of coffee in the lounge. We would be delighted to welcome you to 1 Terry Street.

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Adult Social Club · Long Island

Lifestyle Memberships

Long Island's adult social club for people who love good food, good company and something to look forward to.

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The Membership

An adult social club on Long Island, made for living well

Not every member comes to us for care. Many simply want a beautiful place to spend the day: a long lunch with friends, a painting class, a lecture, an afternoon of live music or a day trip to somewhere new.

A Lifestyle Membership gives you all of that in an elegant club in the heart of Patchogue, with a calendar full of activities and a community of people who enjoy them as much as you do.

And if your needs change, our nurses, companions and adult day services are already here, so you never have to leave the community you love.

Member privileges

Access to the club lounge and dining room
Chef-inspired dining experiences
Enrichment classes and guest speakers
Wellness, gentle fitness, yoga and mindfulness
Live music, dancing and movie afternoons
Priority booking for exclusive outings and events
Concierge help with transportation

Club Life

What members enjoy

Dining

Fine Dining

Chef-inspired meals and special dining events, served in an elegant setting.

Culture

Arts & Culture

Enrichment classes, guest speakers, book discussions and cultural experiences.

Wellness

Wellness & Fitness

Gentle fitness, yoga, balance and mindfulness sessions for every level.

Entertainment

Live Entertainment

Live music, dancing, movie afternoons and seasonal celebrations.

Outings

Exclusive Outings

Curated day trips and local excursions, from Main Street to the bay.

Community

Social Connection

Clubs, games and gatherings that turn new faces into lasting friends.

Membership Options

Choose how often you join us

Memberships are flexible, so you can come once a week or make The Grand Social part of every day.

Try it

Guest Visit

Spend a day as our guest to experience lunch, activities and the community before you join.

Flexible

Part-Time Membership

Choose your favorite days each week and enjoy the full club experience on those days.

Everything

Full Membership

Make The Grand Social your everyday destination, with priority access to outings and events.

See Pricing & Membership

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Who can become a member?

The Grand Social welcomes adults who want a warm, social and engaging place to spend the day. Members join for dining, classes, wellness and outings, and some also use our adult day and companion services.

Do I need care needs to join?

No. A Lifestyle Membership is for active adults who simply want to enjoy the club. If you ever need more support, our adult day program and companion services are available under the same roof.

Can I visit before joining?

Yes. We encourage everyone to schedule a tour and ask about a guest visit to experience the club first.

Is The Grand Social only for Patchogue residents?

No. We are located in Patchogue and welcome members from across Long Island.

Visit The Grand Social

Come see it for yourself

Tour the club, meet our team and enjoy a cup of coffee in the lounge. We would be delighted to welcome you to 1 Terry Street.

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Adult Activities · Patchogue, NY

Activities & Events

Music, movement, art, conversation and outings. There is always something to look forward to at The Grand Social.

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At the Club

Adult activities in Patchogue, every day

Our calendar balances movement, creativity, learning and simple fun, with something for every interest and ability.

Move

Wellness & Fitness

Chair exercise, gentle fitness, yoga, balance practice, stretching and mindfulness.

Create

Arts & Crafts

Painting, drawing, seasonal crafts and creative workshops led by local artists.

Learn

Enrichment & Speakers

Guest speakers, current events, history talks, book discussions and brain games.

Listen

Music & Dancing

Live performers, sing-alongs, dance afternoons and music from every era.

Play

Games & Clubs

Cards, trivia, bingo, word games and member-led clubs.

Celebrate

Dining & Special Events

Themed lunches, holiday parties, birthdays and seasonal celebrations.

A Day at The Grand Social

A sample day

Morning arrivalCoffee, fresh pastries, the morning paper and conversation in the lounge.

Mid-morningGentle fitness or yoga, followed by a wellness check with our nurses for members who need it.

Late morningEnrichment: a guest speaker, a current events discussion or a creative workshop.

LunchA chef-inspired lunch with friends in the dining room. Medication reminders as scheduled.

AfternoonLive music, games, a movie afternoon or an outing into the village.

DepartureAfternoon refreshments, then home with concierge-coordinated transportation.

This is an example. Activities change daily and seasonally; ask us for the current monthly calendar.

Around Patchogue

Outings in our own backyard

Patchogue is one of Long Island's liveliest villages, and much of it is just minutes from our door.

Theater

Patchogue Theatre

The historic Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts on East Main Street opened in 1923 and seats more than 1,100. It hosts concerts, comedy, Broadway-style shows, dance and films.

Festivals

Alive After Five

Downtown Patchogue's summer street festival brings live music on multiple stages, more than 120 vendors and outdoor dining on select Thursday evenings in July and August. 2026 marked its 25th year.

Waterfront

The Great South Bay

Bayfront strolls, marina views and fresh sea air, a favorite for sunny-day outings.

Dining

Main Street Restaurants

Cafés, bakeries and restaurants for long lunches and special occasions.

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What activities do you offer?

Our calendar includes gentle fitness and yoga, arts and crafts, guest speakers, music and dancing, games, themed dining events and outings around Patchogue and Long Island.

Are activities suitable for all abilities?

Yes. Activities are planned around members' skills and interests, and staff adapt them so everyone can take part comfortably.

Can I see the monthly calendar?

Yes. Email [email protected] or ask during your tour and we will share the current calendar.

Do you go on outings?

Yes. Members enjoy curated outings to places like Main Street, the Patchogue waterfront and the Patchogue Theatre, as well as day trips across Long Island.

Sources: Patchogue Theatre (Wikipedia) · Alive After Five, Patchogue

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Come see it for yourself

Tour the club, meet our team and enjoy a cup of coffee in the lounge. We would be delighted to welcome you to 1 Terry Street.

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Companion Services · Long Island

Companion Services

Friendly, one-on-one companionship for conversation, encouragement and a helping hand throughout the day.

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Companionship

Companion services on Long Island, with a personal touch

Sometimes what makes the biggest difference is simply having someone by your side. Our companions are warm, attentive people who spend time one-on-one with members: talking, listening, joining activities and helping the day go smoothly.

Companionship is especially helpful for members who are new to the club, a little shy, living with memory changes or recovering from an illness, and for families who want the reassurance of extra attention.

How a companion helps

Conversation, reminiscing and friendly encouragement
Joining activities, games and classes together
Help getting around the club and settling in
Support during lunch and refreshments
Accompanying members on outings
Gentle reminders and keeping the day on track
Updates for family members

Why It Matters

The benefits of companionship

Connection

Less loneliness

Regular, meaningful conversation and friendship, every visit.

Confidence

More independence

Support that helps members do more for themselves, not less.

Engagement

A fuller day

Encouragement to try new activities and join in with others.

Safety

Peace of mind

Attentive eyes and a helping hand, with nurses close by.

Families

Reassurance

Knowing your loved one has someone looking out for them.

Continuity

A familiar face

Consistent companions who get to know each member well.

Getting Started

Arranging companion services

Tell us about them

Share interests, routines, personality and the kind of support that helps most.

Meet the team

We introduce your companion during a tour or first visit.

Set the schedule

Choose the days and parts of the day when one-on-one support is most helpful.

Stay in touch

We check in with families and adjust as needs change.

Questions

Frequently asked questions

What are companion services?

Companion services provide friendly, one-on-one company and non-medical support: conversation, encouragement, help joining activities and accompanying members on outings.

Is companion care the same as nursing care?

No. Companions provide social and practical support. Health needs are handled by our onsite nurses, who are available for wellness checks and health questions.

Can companion services be added to an adult day program?

Yes. Companion services can be combined with our adult day program or a Lifestyle Membership.

Do you serve families across Long Island?

Yes. The Grand Social is in Patchogue and welcomes members from across Long Island, with help coordinating transportation.

Visit The Grand Social

Come see it for yourself

Tour the club, meet our team and enjoy a cup of coffee in the lounge. We would be delighted to welcome you to 1 Terry Street.

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Adult Day Program Pricing · Long Island

Pricing & Membership

Clear answers about what a day at The Grand Social includes, how memberships work and the ways families pay for adult day programs on Long Island.

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Membership Options

Find the right fit

Pricing depends on how many days you attend and the level of support you need. We'll give you a clear, written quote during your tour.

Start here

Guest Visit

Experience a full day at the club, including lunch and activities, before you decide.

Most flexible

Part-Time

Choose set days each week. Ideal for members easing in and for caregivers who need regular respite.

Best value

Full-Time

Attend every program day with priority access to outings and special events.

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What's Included

Included in every program day

Your membership covers the full Grand Social experience, so there are no surprises.

Some services, such as one-on-one companion services or special ticketed outings, may be added depending on your plan. We'll explain every option clearly.

Chef-inspired lunch, snacks and refreshments
All scheduled club activities and classes
Wellness programs and gentle fitness
Onsite nurses for wellness checks
Medication reminders during the visit
Supervision and personal care support
Concierge transportation coordination
A personal service plan and family updates

Paying for Care

Ways families pay for adult day programs

Many Long Island families combine more than one of these. We're happy to talk through your options.

Most common

Private Pay

Pay directly by the day or by membership. Many families find adult day programs cost far less than full-time home care or residential care.

Insurance

Long-Term Care Insurance

Many long-term care insurance policies include adult day care benefits. Check your policy and we can help with documentation.

Medicaid

Medicaid Managed Long Term Care

New York's Medicaid Managed Long Term Care plans serve people who need community-based long-term care for more than 120 days. Ask your plan's care manager whether social adult day care is covered and which providers are in network.

Veterans

VA Benefits

The VA offers Adult Day Health Care to enrolled Veterans who meet clinical criteria and are eligible for community care. A copay may apply. Contact your VA social worker to learn more.

Local help

Suffolk County Office for the Aging

The county's Office for the Aging can point caregivers to local programs, respite and support services.

Taxes

Tax Benefits

Some families may qualify for tax credits or deductions for dependent or medical care. Ask your tax advisor.

Putting Cost in Context

How adult day care compares

In CareScout's (formerly Genworth's) 2025 Cost of Care Survey, the national median was $95 per day for adult day health care, compared with $35 per hour for non-medical in-home care. That is roughly the price of 2.7 hours of home care for a full day of program, meals and supervision. Costs on Long Island are typically higher than national medians.

Questions

Frequently asked questions

How much does your adult day program cost?

Rates depend on the number of days you attend and the support you need. Contact us or schedule a tour and we will give you a clear, written quote.

Does Medicaid pay for social adult day care in New York?

Some New York Medicaid Managed Long Term Care plans include social adult day care. Coverage depends on your plan and its provider network, so ask your plan's care manager.

Does Medicare cover adult day care?

Original Medicare generally does not pay for adult day care. Some Medicare Advantage plans offer limited adult day benefits; check your plan.

Will long-term care insurance cover it?

Many long-term care insurance policies include adult day care benefits. Review your policy's terms or call your insurer; we can provide the documentation they need.

Is there a trial day?

Yes. Ask about a guest visit when you schedule your tour.

Sources: CareScout 2025 Cost of Care Survey · NYS DOH: Managed Long Term Care · VA: Adult Day Health Care

Visit The Grand Social

Come see it for yourself

Tour the club, meet our team and enjoy a cup of coffee in the lounge. We would be delighted to welcome you to 1 Terry Street.

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Adult Day Program Near Patchogue

Contact & Tours

Looking for an adult day program near Patchogue? Come see The Grand Social for yourself. We would be delighted to welcome you.

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Visit Us

Schedule a personal tour

Tour the lounge and dining room, meet our team and nurses, and see the day's activities in action. Tours are relaxed and personal, so bring family members and all of your questions.

Address1 Terry Street
Patchogue, NY 11772

Email[email protected]

DirectionsIn the Village of Patchogue, close to Main Street. Open in Google Maps

Your Visit

What to expect on your tour

A warm welcome

Coffee in the lounge and an introduction to our team.

See the club

Walk through the dining room, activity spaces and quiet areas.

Talk it through

Discuss interests, schedules, support needs and pricing.

Next steps

Ask about a guest visit and receive a clear, written quote.

Questions

Frequently asked questions

Where is The Grand Social?

We are at 1 Terry Street, Patchogue, NY 11772, in the Village of Patchogue close to Main Street. We serve families from Patchogue, Suffolk County and across Long Island.

How do I schedule a tour?

Use the form on this page or email [email protected] with a few days and times that work for you.

Can family members come on the tour?

Of course. We encourage family members and caregivers to join.

Visit The Grand Social

We look forward to meeting you

Questions before you visit? Email us at [email protected] and we'll be happy to help.

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